Sunday, February 27, 2011

The Joy of Going Broke

Ever feel like you're running out of money, poor, or going broke? Well, I'm totally feeling it. Thankfully though, Tyler and I are nowhere near that point because we’ve been saving and saving money! Not to mention all the gift cards from the wedding…so great! Sometimes however, we just can't help but be more aware of our expenses during certain periods of time. Example: Spring Training.

For the month of spring training, I will pretty much be the moneymaker. Tyler and I will still get money from the Phillies to help pay for our "living out" expenses, which means we’ll get just enough money to where we won't have to live in a tiny hotel room for the month. :) Unfortunately however, it’s not going to be enough to cover the $1,700.00 bill we just received to get our car fixed. :( Oh joy! Turns out cross-country driving took its toll on "my baby." So much for our tax return!

I'm sure you can tell now how thankful we are that I got the job at the cafe. Work is going pretty well for me at the moment; it's not hard, it's just not exactly the place I want to spend my time while in Florida. I know I’m blessed to have gotten the job so easily, and on top of that, conveniently, while Tyler isn’t in season yet, aka: not getting paid yet, so I definitely won’t be taking the income for granted. Here’s why…

The inside scoop is revealed: minor league baseball players don’t make much money. In fact, the biggest paycheck they will most likely see, unless they make it to the big leagues, is their signing bonus. That being the amount of money they sign for when they are drafted. It's true, some guys sign for five, six, even seven figures, but the majority of them do not. When it comes to the rest of the season, the players will, for the most part, make less than you yourself make every month. Pretty crazy knowing they are at the field sometimes more than twelve hours a day, seven days a week!

This is only one of the sacrifices they make for the chance to "make it" in baseball. People really envy Tyler because he gets paid to play a game. It makes sense and I completely understand because baseball is a game, but in our case, it is also his profession. There are many business decisions to be made along the way, and quite a few levels of baseball to advance from. Most people think there are only three levels in the minors: A, AA, and AAA. The real deal is as follows:

Rookie Ball

Short Season A

Low A

High A

AA

AAA

Majors

On top of these levels, there’s also spring training, fall instructional league, and winter ball; all places where a players’ every move on the field is on radar. Although hard work from these players is important, it doesn’t always ensure success or advancement, and it definitely does not ensure millions of dollars. What is does ensure for us however, is the opportunity to travel the country and experience different cities most people do not, to meet other wives, fiancés, girlfriends, families, coaches, and players (big league guys too) along the way that can relate to our lifestyle, to actually know what the inside world of baseball life is really like, and most importantly… to be able to watch a baseball game every night. :) I love the fact that I get to watch my husband do what he loves to do and share his dreams with him of making it to the big leagues. This lifestyle takes a lot of faith and a lot of sacrifice with no guarantee of making it, but at the end of the day, and no matter what our future holds, we will always have each other.

4 comments:

  1. ah... going broke... welcome to married life. Wait 'till you add a kid to the equation! But happiness doesn't cost money, you'll be alright!

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  2. It was nice meeting you yesterday! I also liked reading your blog and think it's great you are documenting these moments of your life, both for you and your hubby and also for others living the baseball life. God's blessings to you both this season! Enjoy these times and stay strong, Lisa

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  3. Hey Girl!
    You two are doing great! You will be fine and you both have a great support system! We love you both and we had a wonderful visit! Ciao baby!! You are in this for the ride!

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  4. Hi Tonya,

    Very interesting blog. I am currently a student at U of Maryland Univ. College and I'm writing my last Jour 371 article on Minor League Baseball. Would you mind answering a few questions? It would really help my article!

    1. How often do you see Tyler during the season? Does the travel put a lot of stress on your marriage?

    2. Is Tyler a high rated prospect?

    3. What motivates Tyler to keep reaching for his dream? Are there things you can do as his wife to keep his head up? Do you feel you could do more or less?

    4. Finally, did Tyler ever play for an Independent team? If so what was the experience like?

    I really appreciate your time! You can email me at pduffy10@gmail.com.

    Take care,

    Patrick C. Duffy

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